breaking cycles
Change your “fight” pattern, and ascend to a higher plane.
“The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education”, said physicist Albert Einstein. It is when I grow through the deepest valleys that I understand myself a little better - what I like, what I don’t (even what I am willing to put up with to learn a particular lesson).
A challenge for me is the struggle to not allow what has happened (to me) to influence what I think about myself. This is an especially hard thing when you’re back at what seems ground zero after picking yourself up and setting on a new course. But according to the so-called experts of life, this is what living is all about. Finding purpose that will benefit not just yourself, but the collective and the future generations is a most important feat, though not without trips and falls along the way.
From what I hear, everything seems to fall into place after understanding your purpose. People often say that our reality and future is shaped by our mindsets. While others believe that we have to “let go” of what we think we want, to truly get what we need. Perhaps, it’s a combination of the two. Whatever the case, identifying the circles that we keep running, giving up our need to fight change, and then making a break for it, might be the resolve. ■
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